Victoria Miretti is a New York City-based dating and relationship coach who helps clients find love and thrive in relationships. After a successful career as a mergers and acquisitions consultant and director at a large national consulting firm, Victoria discovered that uncovering unconscious blocks and limiting beliefs transformed not just her love life, but every area of her life — and she made it her mission to share that knowledge.
Victoria's approach blends somatic trauma therapy, energy leadership, inner child work, and science-backed coaching tools to help clients heal patterns at the root rather than just manage symptoms intellectually. She works with growth-oriented singles and people in relationships who feel stuck, attracting the wrong partners, or struggling to show up as their authentic selves in love.
She is a certified Dating and Relationship Coach from iPEC, a Certified Professional Coach (CPC) and Associate Certified Coach (ACC) through the International Coaching Federation, holds an Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy Certification from The Embody Lab, and is an accredited Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner (ELI-MP). She holds a Bachelor's and Master's degree from the University of Michigan's Ross School of Business.
Background & Training
Practicing since 2020
Certified Dating and Relationship Coach / Certification — Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC)
Certified Professional Coach (CPC) / Certification — International Coaching Federation
Associate Certified Coach (ACC) / Credential — International Coaching Federation
Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy / Certification — The Embody Lab
Energy Leadership Index Master Practitioner (ELI-MP) / Certification — iPEC
MBA / Masters — University of Michigan Ross School of Business
Offerings
1-on-1 Coaching Program
12 weeks (weekly 1-hour sessions) / Virtual
12-week private coaching program to uncover unconscious blocks, heal patterns at the root using somatics and inner child work, build a secure attachment style, and gain tools to navigate dating or relationships with confidence and authenticity.
The Most Authentic You — Group Coaching & Course
Multi-week program / Virtual
Group coaching program and self-paced course with video modules, guides, and worksheets covering limiting beliefs, mindset work, attachment styles, inner child healing, energy awareness, partner selection, communication, and building a secure foundation.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Shadow Work & Inner Child
Self-Worth & Confidence
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Heartbreak & Breakups
Communication & Conflict
Codependency & Attachment
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Nervous System Dysregulation
Childhood Trauma
Loneliness & Social Connection
Stress Management
Sexual Trauma
Reviews & Testimonials
“Mere minutes after my first session with Victoria, I had already felt transformed. She has helped me tremendously with my confidence, which has had a positive halo on my career and with my other relationships. She has a great talent for pushing you by posing probing and challengi...” “Mere minutes after my first session with Victoria, I had already felt transformed. She has helped me tremendously with my confidence, which has had a positive halo on my career and with my other relationships. She has a great talent for pushing you by posing probing and challenging questions, and doing so with so much tact, class, compassion and relatability. She has endless amounts of tools, exercises, research and advice that can help you work through anything. I constantly replay her sound bytes in my mind, which help me process a variety of situations. I am so much more clear on what I am looking for in a partner, how to stay true to my values and when might be the right time to reflect or compromise. I highly recommend working with her, no matter what you're seeking!”
Lauren CFrom website
“I worked with Victoria on exploring areas of trust in relationships in and out of the work environment. I love working with her. Given my experiences she really understands what the issues are and is really good at connecting the dots. She has such a great pragmatic approach, and...” “I worked with Victoria on exploring areas of trust in relationships in and out of the work environment. I love working with her. Given my experiences she really understands what the issues are and is really good at connecting the dots. She has such a great pragmatic approach, and at the same time, always offers a unique perspective that helps move things forward.”
J.B.From website
“Having Victoria as a coach has been one of the best decisions I made as I approached a major career and life change. I felt better organized and equipped to accomplish my goals after our sessions. I would highly recommend everyone to have a life coach that can help them align the...” “Having Victoria as a coach has been one of the best decisions I made as I approached a major career and life change. I felt better organized and equipped to accomplish my goals after our sessions. I would highly recommend everyone to have a life coach that can help them align their actions with their life goals.”
T.O.From website
“My life would not be the same without Victoria. She challenged me to be my best. There's a level of comfort and fun in these interactions that unleashes an incredible energy. She drew a clear path from my present to my future, with the steps on how to get there, and I'm now on th...” “My life would not be the same without Victoria. She challenged me to be my best. There's a level of comfort and fun in these interactions that unleashes an incredible energy. She drew a clear path from my present to my future, with the steps on how to get there, and I'm now on this path. I'm pumped for what's next.”
Q.V.From website
“After three months of work with Victoria I am truly a different person. I found her randomly on Instagram when I was in a pretty dark place, and felt like I was doomed to be controlled by anxiety. I had allowed it to completely sabotage a relationship and felt like I had no power...” “After three months of work with Victoria I am truly a different person. I found her randomly on Instagram when I was in a pretty dark place, and felt like I was doomed to be controlled by anxiety. I had allowed it to completely sabotage a relationship and felt like I had no power over my own life. Whereas I only knew how to confront myself with aggression, she taught me how to be compassionate and curious. She believes that attachment styles are fluid, and I am now living proof of that. This has also profoundly changed my relationship with friends, family, and with myself. My work with Victoria was the best investment I ever made.”
Jason AFrom website
“I was not sure what to expect when hiring a dating and relationship coach. What I did know is that I had been through years of counseling and, while helping, nothing ever seemed right. I had my life together, but why was my personal life lacking? I came across Victoria while scro...” “I was not sure what to expect when hiring a dating and relationship coach. What I did know is that I had been through years of counseling and, while helping, nothing ever seemed right. I had my life together, but why was my personal life lacking? I came across Victoria while scrolling through Instagram reels and I was intrigued. We immediately connected from our very first conversation and I knew I was taking the right step. Throughout my coaching she taught me so much about myself and gave me a new outlook on the dating world. The tools that I came away with have made me a very powerful person that is no longer willing to accept anything less than the best for me. Victoria has made such a positive impact in my life and given me the confidence that I was lacking to be intentional in my dating life and find a high-quality partner.”
MichelleFrom website
“When I came to Victoria for support in my relationship, I was half-in and half-out. I didn't trust myself or my gauge of what was an appropriate level of conflict in a partnership. In working with Victoria, I discovered that my own thoughts were what was creating the majority of ...” “When I came to Victoria for support in my relationship, I was half-in and half-out. I didn't trust myself or my gauge of what was an appropriate level of conflict in a partnership. In working with Victoria, I discovered that my own thoughts were what was creating the majority of my internal conflict in my relationship. She helped me to see that my partner and I indeed love each other very much, but we were failing to acknowledge and register the acts of love we were showing one-another. Victoria supported me to calm myself and my system enough in the moment to be able to learn new ways of communicating with and relating to my partner that created more love, connection, and harmony. I am so grateful for coaching, and I am so grateful for Victoria!!! Her warm, supportive, non-judgmental, and wise approach allowed me to change myself and the trajectory of my relationship. We are happier than ever, and I have never been more excited for the future and what lies ahead!!!”
Kacey KFrom website
“After years of just going through the motions with dating, Victoria helped me get crystal clear on my values and what I was looking for in a quality relationship. I learned strategies to identify and overcome my self-imposed barriers and communication techniques to help me find a...” “After years of just going through the motions with dating, Victoria helped me get crystal clear on my values and what I was looking for in a quality relationship. I learned strategies to identify and overcome my self-imposed barriers and communication techniques to help me find and pursue better matches. My time with Victoria exceeded my expectations, and now I'm actually having fun dating!”
Amanda CFrom website
“Victoria is more than an advisor or coach, she empowers you to be your own advisor. Her ability to listen intently and guide you to self discovery through questions enables clearer decision making.”
"Mere minutes after my first session with Victoria, I had already felt transformed. She has helped me tremendously with my confidence, which has had a positive h..."
Lauren C
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