Vicki Pavitt — Relationship Coaching in London

About Vicki

Vicki Pavitt is a Love, Dating and Relationship Coach based in London who has spent over 12 years helping women untangle the unconscious patterns keeping them stuck in dating drama, emotionally unavailable connections, and cycles that leave them feeling unseen. She works with big-hearted women who've built full lives but can't seem to crack the code on love.

Her signature approach, Wholehearted Dating, blends NLP, EFT (tapping), and attachment science with somatic tools for nervous system regulation — helping clients move from anxious, overthinking, and second-guessing to grounded, boundaried, and genuinely ready for a committed relationship. She's a licensed Master NLP Practitioner, certified Advanced EFT Practitioner, and a recognised authority on attachment styles.

Vicki brings a personal dimension to her work: she navigated her own journey from anxious attachment and painful relationship cycles to a secure, fulfilling relationship. She credits that transformation with shaping her belief that healing the relationship with yourself comes first — and that when you do, the love you want follows. She was formerly the Dating and Relationship Expert for Match.com and has been featured in Glamour and other major outlets.

Background & Training

Practicing since 2014

NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) / Licensed Master Practitioner

EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique / Tapping) / Certified Advanced Practitioner

Attachment Styles / Expert

Offerings

Wholehearted Dating 1:1 Coaching Programme

Ongoing / Virtual

A personalised 1:1 coaching programme for women ready to break free from dating patterns, heal attachment wounds, and create a healthy, committed relationship. Rooted in NLP, EFT, attachment science, and somatic healing.

Free 1:1 Love Coaching Consultation

30 min / Virtual

A 30-minute consultation call to explore where you're feeling challenged in your love life and how 1:1 coaching can help.

I Can Help If You're Navigating

Romantic Relationship Struggles

Feeling Stuck or Lost

Self-Worth & Confidence

Heartbreak & Breakups

Intimacy & Sexual Connection

Anxiety & Overwhelm

Codependency & Attachment

Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage

Loneliness & Social Connection

Communication & Conflict

Nervous System Dysregulation

Shadow Work & Inner Child

Reviews & Testimonials

“Working with Vicki was one of the best things I have done for myself. Vicki taught me how to visualise, trust and work towards a future I have always wanted. When things get tricky, I revert back to the hours of sessions we had, as well as the techniques that she taught me. I cam...”

Jessica K. From website

“Working with Vicki has been a transformative journey towards self-discovery and healing. As a love coach, Vicki offers a unique blend of compassion, insight, and expertise, guiding you towards deep and lasting change. Her approach goes beyond finding love externally; it focuses o...”

Kirsten D. From website

“Coaching has restored my belief that I can work through my anxiety and find a partner I deserve.”

Client From website