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Vicki Pavitt
Relationship Coaching / Dating & Attraction / Women's Work & Feminine Embodiment

Vicki Pavitt

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Helps women heal attachment wounds and break free from dating patterns to find secure, committed love.
London @vickithelovecoach 1.3K vicki••••• PRO
About Vicki

Vicki Pavitt is a Love, Dating and Relationship Coach based in London who has spent over 12 years helping women untangle the unconscious patterns keeping them stuck in dating drama, emotionally unavailable connections, and cycles that leave them feeling unseen. She works with big-hearted women who've built full lives but can't seem to crack the code on love.

Her signature approach, Wholehearted Dating, blends NLP, EFT (tapping), and attachment science with somatic tools for nervous system regulation — helping clients move from anxious, overthinking, and second-guessing to grounded, boundaried, and genuinely ready for a committed relationship. She's a licensed Master NLP Practitioner, certified Advanced EFT Practitioner, and a recognised authority on attachment styles.

Vicki brings a personal dimension to her work: she navigated her own journey from anxious attachment and painful relationship cycles to a secure, fulfilling relationship. She credits that transformation with shaping her belief that healing the relationship with yourself comes first — and that when you do, the love you want follows. She was formerly the Dating and Relationship Expert for Match.com and has been featured in Glamour and other major outlets.

Background & Training
Practicing since 2014
NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) / Licensed Master Practitioner
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique / Tapping) / Certified Advanced Practitioner
Attachment Styles / Expert
Offerings
Wholehearted Dating 1:1 Coaching Programme
Ongoing / Virtual
A personalised 1:1 coaching programme for women ready to break free from dating patterns, heal attachment wounds, and create a healthy, committed relationship. Rooted in NLP, EFT, attachment science, and somatic healing.
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Free 1:1 Love Coaching Consultation
30 min / Virtual
A 30-minute consultation call to explore where you're feeling challenged in your love life and how 1:1 coaching can help.
Free
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Self-Worth & Confidence
Heartbreak & Breakups
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Codependency & Attachment
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Loneliness & Social Connection
Communication & Conflict
Nervous System Dysregulation
Shadow Work & Inner Child
What Clients Say
★★★★★
"Working with Vicki was one of the best things I have done for myself. Vicki taught me how to visualise, trust and work towards a future I have always wanted. When things get tricky, I revert back to the hours of sessions we had, as well as the techniques that she taught me. I came away from the programme feeling more in control of my emotions and what I need to make myself happy. I gained an insight into my own happiness and realised the importance of confidence and self love. I've learnt to back myself, set boundaries, and go after what I deserve. And I'm now in the happiest, healthiest relationship I've probably ever had!"
Jessica K.
★★★★★
"Working with Vicki has been a transformative journey towards self-discovery and healing. As a love coach, Vicki offers a unique blend of compassion, insight, and expertise, guiding you towards deep and lasting change. Her approach goes beyond finding love externally; it focuses on cultivating profound self-love and inner fulfilment. Through her personalised sessions and thoughtful guidance, Vicki helped me navigate my anxious attachments, enabling me to break free from old patterns and beliefs that were holding me back. With Vicki's support, I learned valuable self-love practices that have empowered me to create healthier relationships and a more fulfilling life. Her wisdom and genuine care have significantly impacted my journey towards happiness and emotional well-being."
Kirsten D.
★★★★★
"Coaching has restored my belief that I can work through my anxiety and find a partner I deserve."
Client
★★★★★
"Vicki Pavitt is a warm hug personified, full of love, positive energy and inspiration. She's a leading authority on helping women to find love."
Chloe Brotheridge
★★★★★
"Vicki is a wise, kind and loving presence. Her approach is not 'do these five things to make him love you' but a much more valuable approach of helping us to see the ways we block love and why we might do that and then, in time, how we might be more open to love… Her approach is practical and gentle and always puts us - not the potential partner - at the heart of things. I had a coaching session with her and came out with realisations I had not had before about the people I do and don't go for. It was illuminating and I would recommend her work to anyone looking for love."
Marianne Power
★★★★★
"Vicki Pavitt is the person you want to walk alongside you while you are looking for love. She's trustworthy, warm and most importantly, she knows what she is talking about."
Dr Soph
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