Couples Coaching / Relationship Coaching / Communication & Conflict Resolution
Todd Payne
UnclaimedHelps couples rediscover connection by mapping the invisible personality patterns behind their drift.
Todd Payne has spent over 20 years helping couples navigate the quiet distance that erodes connection. His core insight: most couples don't disconnect because they stop loving each other — they disconnect because they can't see the invisible patterns driving them apart.
His approach centers on the Enneagram to build personalized profiles of each partner, helping couples understand not just what's happening in their relationship, but why — and how to shift it. It's not therapy; it's a structured, pattern-based process built for practical, lasting change.
Todd is especially intentional about making the work feel fair to both partners. Men often say it's the first process that hasn't felt one-sided or blame-driven. Women often say it's a relief not to carry the emotional labor alone. His focus stays on the pattern between partners, never on assigning fault.
He works virtually through two main offerings: ReCouple, a 16-week relationship reset, and The Turning Point, a focused 3-session intensive for couples who want clarity before committing to longer work.