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Tina Swithin
Divorce & Separation Support / Communication & Conflict Resolution / Transition & Life Change

Tina Swithin

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Helps survivors navigate high-conflict divorce and child custody battles involving narcissists.
San Luis Obispo, CA @highconflictdivorcecoach 2.8K onemo••••• PRO
About Tina

Tina Swithin knows what it's like to fight for your children in a family court system that wasn't built for cases involving a narcissist. In 2009, while representing herself in a high-stakes custody battle in California, she started a blog called One Mom's Battle — never expecting thousands of people worldwide were living the same nightmare.

Tina spent years learning the system from the inside: observing courtrooms, studying documentation, and developing a framework for operating from strategy rather than emotion. Against serious odds, she successfully protected her daughters and turned that hard-won experience into a mission.

Today One Mom's Battle is a global community of over 250,000 people. Tina has authored multiple books on divorcing a narcissist and helped pass family court reform legislation in several states. She now trains and certifies High Conflict Divorce Coaches who carry her approach to people still in the trenches. While Tina herself no longer takes new clients, her certified coaches offer the same strategic, grounded support she pioneered.

Background & Training
Practicing since 2009
High Conflict Divorce Coach Certification Program (HCDCCP) / Founder & Director
Offerings
High Conflict Divorce Coaching
Ongoing / Virtual
Strategic one-on-one coaching through a certified network of High Conflict Divorce Coaches trained by Tina Swithin. Covers documentation, communication with a narcissistic co-parent, court preparation, and building your legal team.
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Online Courses
Self-paced / Virtual
Self-paced educational programs teaching survivors how to navigate the family court system, understand post-separation abuse, and develop strategies for high-conflict co-parenting.
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The Lemonade Club
Ongoing membership / Virtual
Community group for survivors of narcissistic abuse navigating the family court system. Offers peer support and ongoing resources.
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Retreats
Multi-day / In person
In-person retreat experiences for survivors of high-conflict divorce and narcissistic abuse.
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I Can Help If You're Navigating
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Communication & Conflict
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Stress Management
PTSD & Complex Trauma
Self-Worth & Confidence
Anger & Emotional Regulation
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Heartbreak & Breakups
Loneliness & Social Connection
Codependency & Attachment
Childhood Trauma
What Clients Say
★★★★★
"You no longer need to go through the ordeal of divorcing a narcissist alone. Through this battle, Tina Swithin is a beacon of clarity. You will realize that you are not alone, you are not crazy, and someday you will start to whisper 'thank you' to the darkness… because in the darkness you will find light you never knew you had inside your heart, strength you never imagined."
Christie Brinkley
★★★★★
"Tina's role as a coach has literally changed my life and the course of my journey through this process. Over the past 8 months, she has helped me strategize, think through complicated legal situations and proposals, set boundaries, draft more effective emails, and better understand both the legal and psychological issues I was facing. Most importantly, she helped me reconnect with myself and to not let fear take me away from what I knew to be true and right."
A.F.
★★★★★
"I received more helpful information from you in a one-hour consultation today, than I have in almost 2 years of working with the attorneys. I should have saved my money and just worked with you!!!"
Karen
★★★★★
"Tina Swithin's books should be required reading for every mental health professional and their divorced clients. Too many therapists counsel clients to use communication and co-parenting strategies that are completely ineffective, and even damaging, for someone dealing with a personality-disordered ex."
Virginia G.
★★★★★
"After years of research as an advocate, Swithin knows enough about these disorders to put some clinicians to shame. If you need to start over, this is the woman you want holding your hand through the process."
Dr. Craig Malkin
★★★★★
"Tina's books have become a lifeline during my custody battle. While reading her first book, I felt like someone finally understood my battle and then wrote about it. It's very difficult to explain what happens in the Family Court System and Tina does it beautifully and honestly. I thank Tina on behalf of every one of us who struggled to articulate what we were going through."
Kelly Rutherford
★★★★★
"When I came across one of Tina's articles on the Huffington Post website, I knew that I had found a light at the end of a very dark tunnel. It was the first time in two years that I felt a sense of hope and relief. Tina has become my mentor, my coach and someone I will be forever grateful to. She has helped me to strategize, find a new attorney and help me turn my case around."
Jessica
★★★★★
"One hour with Tina is worth EVERY penny. I felt like I was talking to a friend and a mentor. She has an amazing ability to listen, empower, and inspire me to not give up because she understands every part of what I am going through. But most importantly, Tina understands my heart."
Dawn
★★★★★
"There is a growing body of good work on narcissism, and in my opinion, Tina's ranks up there with the very best of them. In reading her book, I have found myself becoming her fan."
J. Paul S.
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