Stevie Bowen — Dating & Attraction in New York, NY

About Stevie

Stevie Bowen is a New York City-based dating coach, author, and founder of The City of Dating — a platform built on the belief that dating can be meaningful and even enjoyable, rather than a source of exhaustion and confusion. A self-described "British Texan," she grew up between a small town in Texas and a city north of London, which gave her a layered view of how love and connection take shape differently depending on where you are in the world.

After more than a decade navigating NYC's dating landscape, Stevie channeled her experiences into a memoir, *The City of Dating*, published in 2021. What started as personal reflection — letters written to past dates and relationships — grew into a coaching practice rooted in one idea: throw out the dating rulebook and write your own.

Stepping into coaching formally in late 2023 after earning her ICF certification through the Academy of Creative Coaching, Stevie works with singles on building real dating confidence, recognizing the patterns holding them back, and creating practical strategies for moving from early dating stages into genuine connection. Her sessions are warm, structured, and deeply personal — no generic scripts, no one-size-fits-all advice.

Background & Training

Practicing since 2023

ICF Coaching Certification / Certified — Academy of Creative Coaching

Offerings

Anti-Burnout Dating

4 weeks / Virtual

A 4-week 1:1 coaching program designed to help you date smarter, not harder. Build a personalized dating strategy and kick dating burnout to the curb.

Slow Burn Dating

8 weeks / Virtual

An 8-week 1:1 coaching program that builds lasting dating confidence and a strategy to carry you from early dating stages through to a long-term relationship, with Stevie as your guide and accountability partner.

Drop-In 1:1 Coaching Session

1 session / Virtual

A single session for those who are stuck, unsure, or want to try coaching before committing to a program. Bring a question, leave with a strategy.

Free 1:1 Connection Call

Varies / Virtual

A no-commitment introductory call to ask questions and explore whether 1:1 date coaching is right for you.

I Can Help If You're Navigating

Romantic Relationship Struggles

Burnout & Exhaustion

Self-Worth & Confidence

Feeling Stuck or Lost

Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage

Loneliness & Social Connection

Intimacy & Sexual Connection

Communication & Conflict

Anxiety & Overwhelm

Heartbreak & Breakups

Reviews & Testimonials

“My overall experience has exceeded my expectations on so many levels. I had six sessions total, and each one gave me at least one aha moment. My biggest breakthrough was realizing that I don't have to sit around waiting for guys to make the first move. Through the coaching sessio...”

T. From website

“I had some early skepticism about coaching but I am so glad I took a chance. Stevie has been incredible, quick to meet you where you are and help you get to where you want to go. Unlike other coaches, Stevie both is an adept listener and helps get you on the path you want to go o...”

W. From website

“During our session, Stevie guided me without pushing me and allowed me to focus on my needs without getting sidetracked. This focus gave me a great sense of purpose and control over my own dating narrative and truly opened me up to allow me to not only be in a relationship, but a...”

Rayna From website