About Naomi
Naomi Cao is a divorce coach and strategist based in Sydney who brings something most coaches can't offer: she's been through it herself. She navigated her own divorce, including representing herself in financial and parenting settlements before Australia's Federal Circuit Court, and that lived experience shapes how she shows up for every client.
She works with people at every stage — those still deciding whether to leave, those in the thick of legal proceedings, and those trying to rebuild once the dust has settled. Her approach is practical and emotionally grounded at the same time: helping clients communicate with ex-partners, prepare for court, manage co-parenting, and make sound decisions about finances and their future.
Naomi describes her work as trauma-informed and judgment-free. She also connects clients with a trusted network of lawyers, financial advisors, and therapists when needed. More recently, she's expanded into relationship coaching — helping couples and professionals spot the early signs of disconnection and rebuild the communication skills that keep relationships alive.
Background & Training
Practicing since 2018
Offerings
Free 30-Minute Consultation
30 min / Virtual
An introductory phone call to discuss your situation and receive immediate guidance on next steps.
2-Hour Discovery Call
2 hours / Virtual
A deep-dive session tailored to your specific circumstances to map out your coaching strategy and needs.
Ongoing Coaching Sessions
Flexible / Virtual
Flexible one-on-one coaching sessions covering legal, financial, emotional, and co-parenting challenges throughout separation and post-divorce.
Relationship Coaching
Flexible / Virtual
Helps individuals and couples reignite connection, improve communication, and address early signs of disconnection in romantic, professional, or family relationships.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Heartbreak & Breakups
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Communication & Conflict
Stress Management
Self-Worth & Confidence
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Midlife Crisis / Awakening
Wealth & Abundance
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
What Clients Say
★★★★★
"Working with Naomi was transformative. Her empathetic support and practical strategies helped me navigate the emotional turmoil of divorce and rebuild my confidence."
MB
★★★★★
"After 19 months in the court system, I found Naomi. From our first call, it was full steam ahead. Her support changed everything for me."
RW
★★★★★
"Naomi really made a difference during my divorce. Her ability to help me pause, problem-solve and reframe things was a game changer."
JR
★★★★★
"Naomi was like Wonder Woman. Thanks to her support, I stayed focused through a gruelling mediation day and reached a settlement."
AC
★★★★★
"Naomi empowered me to take control of my finances, rebuild my life, and reconnect socially. I've made lifelong friends through her network."
GW
★★★★★
"I felt lost after separating, but Naomi helped me regain focus. Her self-care tips and goal-setting techniques were life-changing."
VH
★★★★★
"Naomi helped me through one of the hardest times in my life. Her empathy, structure, and support empowered me to move forward with confidence."
MM
★★★★★
"Naomi helped me set realistic goals and rediscover my strengths. Her encouragement and guidance gave me direction and purpose."
PC
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