About Matthew
Matthew Hoffman is a relationship coach, speaker, and author who works with couples and professionals ready to transform the way they connect. His own path to coaching began in the thick of early marriage — he and his wife Kimberly hit a wall after 20 years together, weighed down by three kids and the demands of running a business. Rather than drift apart, Matthew made a deliberate choice to reinvest in the relationship, and the results changed everything.
He now helps couples move from disconnection and chronic conflict back to genuine intimacy, using a framework built around three core principles: Commitment, Communication, and Conflict Resolution. His signature Kickass Quotient assessment covers 14 relationship pillars and gives clients an honest read on exactly where they stand — and where they can grow.
Matthew also works with executives and business teams, applying the same relational principles to help leaders communicate with clarity and build high-trust teams. He's the author of *Kickass Husband* and hosts the Kickass Couples Podcast, where he explores what it really takes to build a lasting, fulfilling partnership.
Background & Training
Energy Leadership Index (ELI) / Master Practitioner
Offerings
Just A Taste Coaching
3 x 1-hour sessions / Virtual
Three 1-hour intensive sessions with Matthew covering ELI assessment + debrief, eliminating inner critics, and core energy coaching. All sessions must be completed within 30 days.
Marriage Practitioner
9 sessions / Virtual
90-day jumpstart program with 9 weekly or bi-monthly 1-on-1 sessions, ELI report + debrief for 1 person, monthly group webinars, action plans, private FB group, and book.
Marriage Pro-ficiency
18 sessions / Virtual
18 weekly or bi-monthly 1-on-1 sessions, ELI report for 2 people + personalized debrief, personal Relationship Magna Carta roadmap, monthly group webinars, and all materials.
Relationship Coaching Mastery
28 sessions / Virtual
Comprehensive program covering all 14 key relationship pillars across 28 sessions, ELI for 2 people, personalized RMC roadmap, monthly webinars, and full resource library.
Maintenance Coaching
1 hour/month / Virtual
Ongoing monthly coaching with 1-hour intensive session, foundational pillar webinar, private community access, and weekly resources. Minimum 3-month commitment.
Energy Leadership Index (ELI) Assessment
1-hour debrief / Virtual
Personalized energy assessment to discover how you respond under stress and where energy gets stuck, plus a 1-hour debrief with Matthew to uncover actionable growth strategies.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Communication & Conflict
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Anger & Emotional Regulation
Codependency & Attachment
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Leadership & Influence
Entrepreneurship & Business
Stress Management
Burnout & Exhaustion
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
What Clients Say
★★★★★
"Matthew's presentation at Grow Con ignited a transformative perspective, urging a proactive balance between personal and entrepreneurial pursuits. His dynamic delivery and unconventional subject matter resonated deeply, fostering an enduring drive for improved relationships and ongoing personal growth among attendees, marking his speeches as more than a momentary highlight but a catalyst for continuous development."
Terry Hedden
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