Lily Womble is a dating coach and former top matchmaker who spent years setting up nearly 400 dates before realizing the real problem wasn't a lack of options — it was the way women are taught to date. Her work is about helping feminist women build confident, joyful dating lives without playing small, performing, or waiting to be chosen.
Lily combines insider matchmaking knowledge with feminist mindset work to help clients get radically clear on what they want, trust their gut, and date with boldness instead of anxiety. She draws from her own story — leaving a toxic relationship and rebuilding her love life from scratch — to meet clients where they are without judgment.
She's worked with hundreds of clients around the world and is also the author of "Thank You, More Please," a practical, irreverent book about breaking free from patriarchal dating rules and building a love life that's joyful and entirely on your own terms.
Offerings
One on One Coaching
Virtual
Private coaching combining feminist mindset work with tactical dating strategy. Helps clients build self-trust, clarity about what they want, and a joyful approach to dating that doesn't require changing who they are.
Main Character Dating
Virtual
A structured program helping clients step into a confident, intentional dating life — treating themselves as the main character rather than waiting to be chosen.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Self-Worth & Confidence
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Loneliness & Social Connection
Perfectionism & People-Pleasing
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Heartbreak & Breakups
Codependency & Attachment
Reviews & Testimonials
“Couldn't put it down. I love this practical, real book and the wisdom Lily offers in it. It's not filled with tired self-care about lighting candles and taking a warm bath but tangible strategies you can take to move towards a better dating life. Liberating!”
ReaderFrom website
“Thank You, More Please is the dating manifesto so many of us (myself included) need. Full of practical, seriously entertaining, and insightful advice, Lily Womble invites us to stop wondering if we're 'too much,' or doing something 'wrong,' and instead focus on creating a joyful,...” “Thank You, More Please is the dating manifesto so many of us (myself included) need. Full of practical, seriously entertaining, and insightful advice, Lily Womble invites us to stop wondering if we're 'too much,' or doing something 'wrong,' and instead focus on creating a joyful, non-soul-sucking dating experience for ourselves. It's a must-read for anyone ready to heal from their past and take center stage in their own love story.”
ReaderFrom website
“If you want modern, real, authentic and practical advice on how to handle dating in this new digital age, look no further than this book! Lily nails it with so much relatable, spot-on guidance — I think everyone who reads this will walk away feeling smarter, more confident and en...” “If you want modern, real, authentic and practical advice on how to handle dating in this new digital age, look no further than this book! Lily nails it with so much relatable, spot-on guidance — I think everyone who reads this will walk away feeling smarter, more confident and encouraged.”
ReaderFrom website
“I bought this book the other day and I haven't been able to put it down. I'm learning so much and the validation and permission slips to trust my intuition and want what I want has felt so good and the other lessons have truly changed my entire mindset about dating!”
ReaderFrom website
“Literally one of the best books I've read this year! So many beautiful lessons that can apply to every single aspect of your life outside of dating. I've literally mentioned this book to my therapist because it has helped me so much already.”
ReaderFrom website
“Lily is a treasure trove of practical and confidence-building tips. I'm a gleefully married woman, but this book actually made me wish I could date again so I could put this brilliant advice to use!”
Farnoosh TorabiFrom website
“A laugh-out-loud funny, heartwarming, and vulnerable book perfect for any woman who has ever feared that she's 'too much.'”
Faith JenkinsFrom website
“Lily Womble insightfully untangles all the ways the patriarchy has screwed up how we find love, and shares a step-by-step process to creating the joyful, powerful love life you deserve. Every single person wanting to find love should read this book!”
Vanessa MarinFrom website
“Her bold proclamations of how women should be themselves and proudly are just what any of your friends tired of the apps needs to hear and is a rallying cry for all women, single and coupled alike.”
Kara LoewentheilFrom website
“She is supportive, empathetic, wise — and hilarious too! Her empowering, feminist approach to dating will give you the confidence to ask for more in every area of your life.”
"Couldn't put it down. I love this practical, real book and the wisdom Lily offers in it. It's not filled with tired self-care about lighting candles and taking ..."
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