Lauren Schaeffer — Relationship Coaching

About Lauren

Lauren Schaeffer is the founder of Quietly Becoming, a virtual coaching and community space for women who want love that fits the life they are building. Her work is for women who feel drawn to ambitious, high-performing partners and want more clarity, steadiness, and self-trust in how they date and relate.

She teaches through group coaching, trainings, reflection, and community support. Her approach centers on emotional regulation, communication, identity, and feminine embodiment, with an emphasis on staying grounded rather than performing or manipulating.

What stands out in Lauren’s work is the specific relationship dynamic she speaks to. She helps women hold high standards, understand themselves more deeply, and build relationships that feel supportive of both love and ambition.

Offerings

Quietly Becoming Community

Virtual

Private virtual community for women who desire or are in relationships with high-performing men, with trainings, coaching calls, conversations, and community support.

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Women's Coaching

3 months / Virtual

A 3-month intensive with weekly group coaching calls, private community access, personalized feedback, transformational exercises, recordings, and lifetime access.

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I Can Help If You're Navigating

Romantic Relationship Struggles

Self-Worth & Confidence

Communication & Conflict

Intimacy & Sexual Connection

Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage

Loneliness & Social Connection

Codependency & Attachment

Feeling Stuck or Lost

Stress Management

Media & Links