Kimberly Hill is a certified dating and relationship coach based in Vancouver, BC, who works exclusively with men — particularly those who are single again after a marriage or long-term relationship and finding modern dating confusing, discouraging, or shame-inducing. Her work is grounded in her own decade of self-discovery: after struggling with self-worth and depression in her twenties, she traveled through 33 countries, immersed herself in male-dominated work environments, and eventually returned to Vancouver to invest deeply in coaching education and personal growth.
Kimberly's approach is personalized and practical. She helps men understand their patterns, build genuine confidence (not performance), and learn how to connect authentically with women rather than just optimize their dating app profiles. Her areas of focus include attachment styles, communication, co-dependency, boundaries, and dating after divorce. She's certified in Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Solutions-Focused Coaching.
She has worked with 450+ men on a private 1:1 basis and hosts The Self-Confidence Project podcast, which ranks in the top 2% of podcasts globally. She's been featured in Bustle, Thrive Global, and named one of the Top 10 Dating Experts of 2023.
Background & Training
Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) / Certified
Solutions-Focused Coaching / Certified
Dating & Relationships Expert / Certified
Offerings
Private 1:1 Coaching
Virtual
Confidential, personalized coaching for men who want to build confidence, overcome patterns, and attract a genuine relationship. Includes a free dating strategy call to start.
Dating Profile Blueprint
Virtual
A high-impact masterclass covering how to create an online dating profile that attracts the kind of woman you actually want, eliminating common mistakes.
Audio Masterclass: 10 Tips for Talking to Women
Under 1 hour / Virtual
Under an hour, 10 shifts to make texting and talking to women feel natural, confident, and fun.
Free Dating Masterclass
Virtual
A free limited-time masterclass for men dating after divorce, separation, or a long-term relationship.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Self-Worth & Confidence
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Loneliness & Social Connection
Heartbreak & Breakups
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Codependency & Attachment
Communication & Conflict
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Midlife Crisis / Awakening
Reviews & Testimonials
“I took myself off the dating market in May! Since working with Kimberly I met someone and we connected in a good way! We've been getting together 3-4 times a week. We even took our first overnight trip to central Oregon together. I recommend Kimberly to any guy looking to improve...” “I took myself off the dating market in May! Since working with Kimberly I met someone and we connected in a good way! We've been getting together 3-4 times a week. We even took our first overnight trip to central Oregon together. I recommend Kimberly to any guy looking to improve his relationships. She has a wealth of knowledge and always leaves you with something to challenge your thinking. If you have the opportunity to work with Kimberly, you won't be disappointed.”
Joe M., 52From website
“When we first met, I was really lost in terms of my feelings and my previous relationships. I was struggling processing my break-ups, I was feeling very insecure and my confidence and self worth were really low. From our first chat, I felt immediately comfortable with you and ins...” “When we first met, I was really lost in terms of my feelings and my previous relationships. I was struggling processing my break-ups, I was feeling very insecure and my confidence and self worth were really low. From our first chat, I felt immediately comfortable with you and instantly respected your thoughts and valued your perspective. You really helped me regain my confidence and self worth. I'm really feeling good about myself and I'm learning it's okay to prioritize my own thoughts and feelings. I've felt very good about my coaching experience with you and the only thing I am not looking forward to is that it's ending soon….Honestly, I've enjoyed my experience!”
Ian G., 41From website
“Before working with Kimberly, I felt I was frustrated online, I didn't know how to go out and talk to women. I was also challenged with conversations online and didn't have anyone to share that with. Working with you I gained confidence being more direct and intentional, asking w...” “Before working with Kimberly, I felt I was frustrated online, I didn't know how to go out and talk to women. I was also challenged with conversations online and didn't have anyone to share that with. Working with you I gained confidence being more direct and intentional, asking women out, and being more decisive and precise. I'm also thankful you helped me show up with my natural energy and enthusiasm. I'm having a lot of great conversations with women right now!”
Ryan R., 54From website
“Coaching at its best. Kimberly Hill is an incredible coach and mentor. I needed a bit of guidance after a divorce from a 25-year marriage. Her process had us walk through how to work on me first and identify critical steps to improve my relationships. She helped me reduce my dati...” “Coaching at its best. Kimberly Hill is an incredible coach and mentor. I needed a bit of guidance after a divorce from a 25-year marriage. Her process had us walk through how to work on me first and identify critical steps to improve my relationships. She helped me reduce my dating anxiety. Then, my crush from over 20 years ago reappeared in my life. We reconnected and are seeing each other! She makes me feel like my best self! WOW. Kimberly, our weekly session became a significant accountability marker for my journey. I have no reservations about recommending Kimberly as a coach.”
Kent H., 54From website
“Kimberly, in the span of weeks, you've inspired and guided me to join a gym, hire a personal fitness trainer, work out 5 days a week, lose 8 pounds, eat healthy and clean, organize and furnish my apartment, bring energy and commitment to my career, socialize and foster friendship...” “Kimberly, in the span of weeks, you've inspired and guided me to join a gym, hire a personal fitness trainer, work out 5 days a week, lose 8 pounds, eat healthy and clean, organize and furnish my apartment, bring energy and commitment to my career, socialize and foster friendships, get closer to my family, and now after dating again, I've met my dream partner. We've just moved in together and we're working on our dream of building a container home. Thank you!”
Stephen D., 53From website
“Before speaking with Kimberly, I was working on being emotionally available for a partner as well as attracting the right partner into my life. During our coaching together, I was able to gain clarity and a full understanding of what kind of woman I'm compatible with. I also lear...” “Before speaking with Kimberly, I was working on being emotionally available for a partner as well as attracting the right partner into my life. During our coaching together, I was able to gain clarity and a full understanding of what kind of woman I'm compatible with. I also learned what it was like to be emotionally available. Kimberly's personalized approach to coaching was what made it possible for me to see instant results. I've not only met my dream partner, but I proposed to her last fall and now we're married! As men, action is in our blood. There is no time to wait, only time to feel and act.”
"I took myself off the dating market in May! Since working with Kimberly I met someone and we connected in a good way! We've been getting together 3-4 times a we..."
Joe M., 52
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