About Julia
Julia Nilsen is a CDC Certified Divorce Coach® and licensed attorney based in Los Angeles who works with clients at every stage of divorce — whether they're weighing the decision, deep in proceedings, or adjusting to life on the other side. Having navigated her own high-conflict, high-asset divorce from an abusive relationship while raising four children, she brings hard-won personal understanding alongside her professional expertise.
Julia acts as a central hub in her clients' support networks — helping them assemble the right team of professionals, understand the legal and financial landscape, develop co-parenting plans, and build the emotional coping skills to stay grounded through it all.
She co-hosts the non-profit Second Saturday® Divorce Workshops and founded the Butterfly Foundation, a 501(c)(3) providing transitional support — funds, goods, and services — for women facing difficult life challenges.
Background & Training
CDC Certified Divorce Coach® / Certified
Juris Doctor (Attorney) / Licensed
Offerings
Free Consultation
30 min / Virtual
A 30-minute consultation to determine fit and set you on the path to success.
Divorce Coaching
Ongoing / Virtual
Personalized coaching through all stages of divorce — contemplation, active proceedings, and post-divorce adjustment. Covers legal process navigation, professional team building, financial planning, emotional wellness, negotiation skills, co-parenting strategies, and parenting plan development.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Heartbreak & Breakups
Communication & Conflict
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Grief & Loss
Stress Management
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Self-Worth & Confidence
Midlife Crisis / Awakening
Childhood Trauma
Reach Out to Julia
Send Julia a message
Tell them a bit about what you're going through. No commitment, no pressure.