Joel Monteleone is an Austin-based dating coach and emotional intelligence expert who believes modern dating has lost its spark — and he's on a mission to bring it back. After years of watching people cycle through apps, swipe fatigue, and the same unfulfilling patterns, he created Hot Takes, Hot Dates, a coaching practice and community-driven movement built around authenticity, humor, and real-life connection.
Joel works with ambitious singles — men and women — who've done the self-work but still can't seem to crack the code on relationships. His approach blends emotional intelligence, practical tools, and a healthy dose of levity to help clients stop dating out of habit and start attracting partners who are genuinely aligned with them.
Beyond 1:1 coaching, Joel hosts live dating events in Austin and founded Hot & Sober, a community for people living alcohol-free who want to show up as their most confident, magnetic selves. He also runs NetPlay, a playful adult networking event designed to help people connect the way they did as kids — through games, laughter, and zero pressure.