Evan Marc Katz is a dating coach based in Los Angeles who has spent over two decades helping high-achieving single women find lasting, committed relationships. He started coaching in 2003 after working in online dating and screenwriting, and developed a practical, direct approach to helping women understand men — and themselves — better.
His signature program, Love U, is an online coaching community that walks women through rebuilding confidence, identifying patterns that keep them stuck, and learning to attract emotionally available partners. With over 13,000 graduates, a 35-million-reader blog, and a 300+ episode podcast, Evan has built one of the largest audiences in the dating coaching space.
What sets him apart is his willingness to say what friends won't. His work focuses less on tactics and more on mindset — helping women recognize when they're choosing excitement over safety, or giving more than they're getting. He works almost exclusively with women, and his approach centers on raising their standards while also examining where their own patterns are getting in the way.
Background & Training
Practicing since 2003
iDate Best Dating Coach Award / Award
Offerings
Love U
Ongoing / Virtual
Comprehensive online coaching program and community designed to help smart, successful single women regain confidence, understand men, and create a lasting committed relationship. Includes video modules, community access, and coaching support.
1-on-1 Coaching
Ongoing / Virtual
Personalized private coaching with Evan. Prospective clients book a discovery call to discuss their situation and goals.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Loneliness & Social Connection
Heartbreak & Breakups
Self-Worth & Confidence
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Codependency & Attachment
Communication & Conflict
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Midlife Crisis / Awakening
Reviews & Testimonials
“For any woman who wants a real and meaningful relationship but continues coming up short, you are the man for the job. I'm married! I am so happy, because I feel safe and secure with a man who is devoted to me. He is everything I was looking for – although it took you to make me ...” “For any woman who wants a real and meaningful relationship but continues coming up short, you are the man for the job. I'm married! I am so happy, because I feel safe and secure with a man who is devoted to me. He is everything I was looking for – although it took you to make me realize that. There is no way I would be a happily married woman today without you.”
Karin W.From website
“Right now, I'm on my honeymoon in the Maldives with the man of my dreams, thanks to your work. I knew it was working when I was dating a guy who other women were chasing, yet he was pressing me for commitment. It was so EMPOWERING to be the one who made that choice vs the other w...” “Right now, I'm on my honeymoon in the Maldives with the man of my dreams, thanks to your work. I knew it was working when I was dating a guy who other women were chasing, yet he was pressing me for commitment. It was so EMPOWERING to be the one who made that choice vs the other way around.”
Diana B.From website
“Blake and I are now engaged! Thanks for all your help and support in finding myself, and because of that, him. Thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn't know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn't even know exis...” “Blake and I are now engaged! Thanks for all your help and support in finding myself, and because of that, him. Thank you for believing in me, and giving me confidence I didn't know I had. Thank you for seeing that there was something to be seen in me, that I didn't even know existed.”
Sahaja P.From website
“We're engaged! Mark proposed on Saturday night. It was magical. I want you to know that I am marrying the 'right' man. I had so many men I thought I wanted to marry and they were the wrong men. I have the most wonderful, adoring, lovely Mark.”
Michelle I.From website
“This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring. A few years ago I was feeling increasingly frustrated with my dating life. After divorcing an emotionally unavailable man after 23 years of marriage I had two difficult, long term relationships with men who were not stepping up. E...” “This week, I got a proposal and a beautiful ring. A few years ago I was feeling increasingly frustrated with my dating life. After divorcing an emotionally unavailable man after 23 years of marriage I had two difficult, long term relationships with men who were not stepping up. Evan provided me with my first 'Aha' moment — 'You've been a great mother to your children, and a good daughter to your elderly mother but who's been there for you Christine?' This actually made me cry.”
Christine D.From website
“I followed your advice to a T, started online dating diligently, and met my husband after only meeting 4 guys online. Five years ago, I was so frustrated with love and dating. I went ahead and bought your book 'Why He Disappeared' and read every single one of your emails. I'm a h...” “I followed your advice to a T, started online dating diligently, and met my husband after only meeting 4 guys online. Five years ago, I was so frustrated with love and dating. I went ahead and bought your book 'Why He Disappeared' and read every single one of your emails. I'm a happily married woman.”
Carla S.From website
“I'm in an amazing marriage with a really wonderful man. Easily the best and most healthy relationship of my life. And I'm happy. Really happy. Bad relationship choices have cost me a lot more personally and sometimes financially than I'll ever spend on coaching. I didn't want jus...” “I'm in an amazing marriage with a really wonderful man. Easily the best and most healthy relationship of my life. And I'm happy. Really happy. Bad relationship choices have cost me a lot more personally and sometimes financially than I'll ever spend on coaching. I didn't want just ANY relationship. I wanted a really good one.”
April G.From website
“Love U is the BEST purchase I've ever made! I started the Love U program at age 36. I felt good about what I had to offer a guy.”
Lauren T.From website
“I've been listening and reading for a few years now and Evan's advice has guided me extremely well — it's like having the big brother I never had! I'm divorced and in my early 50's and I wish I knew back then what I know now. Even though I'm in a great relationship now I still fi...” “I've been listening and reading for a few years now and Evan's advice has guided me extremely well — it's like having the big brother I never had! I'm divorced and in my early 50's and I wish I knew back then what I know now. Even though I'm in a great relationship now I still find his podcast enlightening!”
"For any woman who wants a real and meaningful relationship but continues coming up short, you are the man for the job. I'm married! I am so happy, because I fee..."
Karin W.
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