Eri Kardos is the founder and lead coach of Relearn Love, a practice for singles and couples who want more than surface-level connection. Her somatic and science-based methods help people dissolve old patterns and build the kind of relationships they've always wanted but weren't sure were real.
Based in Bali, Eri works with clients across six continents — tech executives, Hollywood creatives, and ordinary people navigating love's full complexity. A former Amazon leadership developer, TEDx speaker, and author of Relationship Agreements, she specializes in showing how thriving at home and thriving at work are deeply connected.
She's also a longtime sex-positive educator, leading workshops on conscious communication, ethical non-monogamy, and consent — with warmth and without judgment.
Background & Training
Bachelor's Degree in Sexual Psychology / Bachelor's
Somatic and science-based coaching for committed couples looking to reignite passion, deepen intimacy, and dissolve patterns of conflict.
Private 1:1 Coaching for Singles
Virtual
Individual coaching to dissolve barriers to love, break repeating patterns, and build readiness for deep, fulfilling partnership.
Group Coaching Program
Virtual
Community-based program exploring intimacy, communication, and relationship design with weekly practices and group reflection.
Private Retreat in Bali
In person
Immersive in-person retreat experience for private clients, hosted at Eri's home base on the island of Bali.
Corporate Speaking & Workshops
In person & virtual
Keynotes and interactive workshops for companies such as Amazon and Microsoft on relationship intelligence, communication, and connection.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Communication & Conflict
Heartbreak & Breakups
Loneliness & Social Connection
Codependency & Attachment
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Self-Worth & Confidence
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Shadow Work & Inner Child
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Ancestral & Intergenerational Trauma
Burnout & Exhaustion
Leadership & Influence
Reviews & Testimonials
“I just wanted to take a minute to say thank you. I'm so very grateful for you and for what you've been in my life. I'm blown away that somebody I have never met in person, high-fived or hugged has had such a personal, intimate and profound impact on my life. I am very grateful to...” “I just wanted to take a minute to say thank you. I'm so very grateful for you and for what you've been in my life. I'm blown away that somebody I have never met in person, high-fived or hugged has had such a personal, intimate and profound impact on my life. I am very grateful to have you and for the impact you have had on my life, and our lives, and us as a couple. I see the evidence of your impact and I know we are now capable of handling anything that comes our way.”
Steven & MeeFrom website
“Eri is more than a relationship coach – she's an amazing guide, teacher, and friend. She changed my outlook on life and future intimate partnerships and I am so grateful for every minute spent with her.”
JustinFrom website
“Whether you were referred to her book by a friend, heard her on your favorite podcast, subscribe to her newsletter, or are learning about her for the first time — Eri's approach to relationships will give you a brand-new perspective on what a relationship CAN BE, and help you des...” “Whether you were referred to her book by a friend, heard her on your favorite podcast, subscribe to her newsletter, or are learning about her for the first time — Eri's approach to relationships will give you a brand-new perspective on what a relationship CAN BE, and help you design the relationship you desire.”
Jolie D.From website
“I am so stoked to work with Eri because she opened up the doors for me to do my emotional work. I was able to hang in during the darkest moments when I felt I was ready to give up and able to show up for my work only because she found a way to guide me safely and with curiosity t...” “I am so stoked to work with Eri because she opened up the doors for me to do my emotional work. I was able to hang in during the darkest moments when I felt I was ready to give up and able to show up for my work only because she found a way to guide me safely and with curiosity through the journeys I have with my partner and with myself. I never realized that such a depth of work was even possible.”
ViFrom website
“Thank YOU, Eri, for your continued fire and passion for lifting others up! You are a rockstar!”
DeeFrom website
“'Say what's not being said,' is one of my relationship mantras, and Eri does a wonderful job sharing tools that will help you and your loved ones find the words and the courage to be the change you want to see in the bedroom and design your ideal relationship.”
Reid M.From website
“Families at Amazon was excited to have Eri Kardos present to our members for a special Valentine's Day session around the Relearn Love Method. She brought valuable learnings relevant to both work and home, and our attendees appreciated her insights, suggestions and energy. Thank ...” “Families at Amazon was excited to have Eri Kardos present to our members for a special Valentine's Day session around the Relearn Love Method. She brought valuable learnings relevant to both work and home, and our attendees appreciated her insights, suggestions and energy. Thank you Eri, for sharing your time & expertise – we look forward to having you join us again!”
Heather M.From website
“Eri is absolutely awesome. She has a way of connecting with people with such ease. Before I even knew it, I was discovering things about myself that I didn't even know were holding me back for many years. I didn't realize how much I was stopping myself from being my true self. My...” “Eri is absolutely awesome. She has a way of connecting with people with such ease. Before I even knew it, I was discovering things about myself that I didn't even know were holding me back for many years. I didn't realize how much I was stopping myself from being my true self. My kids have seen a difference just in how my attitude has changed and that I am focusing on being happy. My husband has seen the change because I am more about being not just happy myself but together. Working with Eri has helped me feel empowered, curious, and alive again as a whole woman – not 'just a mom or wife'.”
Angela Z.From website
“I did an impromptu session with Eri Kardos last week. I was blown away by her clarity around 'the profound connection between work and relationships'. It was so palpable to see the places where it's all the same thing and any place we're blocked in our relationships, it shows up ...” “I did an impromptu session with Eri Kardos last week. I was blown away by her clarity around 'the profound connection between work and relationships'. It was so palpable to see the places where it's all the same thing and any place we're blocked in our relationships, it shows up in our work. Any place we're stuck in our work shows up in our relationships. Such a valuable mirror! If you haven't experienced Eri's work yet, I highly recommend scheduling a session.”
Garrison C.From website
“Eri's bold new strategy really gets at the heart of what underlies frustrations in intimate relationship: difficulty with communication, trust, and honesty. Her approach, guided by insight and intuition, is smartly presented and something every relationship will benefit from.”
Fred L.From website
“Eri's coaching style is warm, accepting, and open. She is focused on helping you find the solutions that work for you rather than a one-size-fits-all-out-of-some-book-from-business-school solution. She gently leans into the uncomfortable conversations to move the dialogue forward...” “Eri's coaching style is warm, accepting, and open. She is focused on helping you find the solutions that work for you rather than a one-size-fits-all-out-of-some-book-from-business-school solution. She gently leans into the uncomfortable conversations to move the dialogue forward.”
NikFrom website
“I loved working with Eri. For me it meant taking the time to work on the weekly invitations, taking the time for guided practices and taking the time to spend with a group of other like-minded people to reflect. The community aspect offered me a safe space to discuss the challeng...” “I loved working with Eri. For me it meant taking the time to work on the weekly invitations, taking the time for guided practices and taking the time to spend with a group of other like-minded people to reflect. The community aspect offered me a safe space to discuss the challenges of everyday life as well as our weekly assignments. I feel I am richer by new experience and self awareness as well as a new group of friends that I have bonded with through the time we spent together.”
TinaFrom website
“I was hesitant to join a group of people in a coaching program, but those people coming together each week is where the power was. It was incredible connecting to other like-minded people and sharing our experiences together. I loved learning about topics outside my comfort zone ...” “I was hesitant to join a group of people in a coaching program, but those people coming together each week is where the power was. It was incredible connecting to other like-minded people and sharing our experiences together. I loved learning about topics outside my comfort zone and having the love/support not to feel uncomfortable or judged about anything. This was a beautiful experience, and I've learned so much.”
MichelleFrom website
“This has definitely been transformational. The whole process of being curious about the community, deciding to move forward with joining, and committing the time to complete the invitations. It has been a lesson in listening to myself and showing up for myself. And then the actua...” “This has definitely been transformational. The whole process of being curious about the community, deciding to move forward with joining, and committing the time to complete the invitations. It has been a lesson in listening to myself and showing up for myself. And then the actual guidance offered has felt nourishing and insightful. I am on the path of self love, self discovery, and a commitment to leaning into the sticky spots.”
"I just wanted to take a minute to say thank you. I'm so very grateful for you and for what you've been in my life. I'm blown away that somebody I have never met..."
Steven & Mee
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