Clayton Olson is an international relationship coach, author, and facilitator who has spent over 20 years studying what makes love and connection actually work. Based in Denver, he works with clients across the US, UK, Asia, and Australia — both men and women — helping them through some of their most painful relationship moments: devastating breakups, struggling marriages, and the quiet fear that good love simply isn't available to them.
His approach blends NLP, neuroscience, and deep self-inquiry to get at the root of what's really going on beneath the surface. Clayton doesn't teach quick-fix strategies. Instead, he works with the unconscious beliefs and patterns that drive people's most painful experiences in love — helping clients understand why they do what they do, without shame or judgment, and then building the kind of inner confidence that changes how they show up in every relationship.
Clayton also works with entrepreneurs and leaders who discover that their toughest challenges aren't in the boardroom — they're in how they see themselves. The self-worth and relationship skills translate directly into business clarity, leadership presence, and the ability to make decisions from alignment rather than fear.
Background & Training
Practicing since 2014
Bachelor's Degree in Communications / Degree
Masters Certification in Transformational NLP (Marin-style) / Masters Certification
Coaching Training Alliance (CTA) / Accredited
Offerings
Private 1:1 Coaching
Ongoing engagement / Virtual
Personalized virtual coaching sessions blending NLP, neuroscience, and deep self-inquiry to transform relationship patterns, self-worth, and life direction.
Online Group Workshops
Varies / Virtual
International group workshops for both women and men covering relationships, confidence, and personal growth.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Heartbreak & Breakups
Self-Worth & Confidence
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Communication & Conflict
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Codependency & Attachment
Perfectionism & People-Pleasing
Finding Purpose & Direction
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Entrepreneurship & Business
Leadership & Influence
Burnout & Exhaustion
Shadow Work & Inner Child
Wealth & Abundance
Reviews & Testimonials
“Saved my relationship – more than once. He was able to give me a lot of clarity and acceptance. Clayton has a special gift for understanding situations with what little information you tell him. It's more than just his knowledge and training… there's definitely something special ...” “Saved my relationship – more than once. He was able to give me a lot of clarity and acceptance. Clayton has a special gift for understanding situations with what little information you tell him. It's more than just his knowledge and training… there's definitely something special about him. If there's an internal or external conflict in your relationship, Clayton will be able to help you in ways you couldn't on your own. If you need a relationship coach, he is exceptional.”
George R.From website
“I started working with Clayton 12 months ago when my 20+ year career felt like it had completely stalled out. I was waking up with palpable panic each morning, and feeling powerless in my situation. After our first session, I was able to easily understand a much more objective re...” “I started working with Clayton 12 months ago when my 20+ year career felt like it had completely stalled out. I was waking up with palpable panic each morning, and feeling powerless in my situation. After our first session, I was able to easily understand a much more objective reality, and quickly moved away from debilitating panic and toward solutions-oriented thinking. Rather than learning how to bury emotions and use magical thinking to minimize conflicts, Clayton empowered me to use my particular gifts and insights to understand my situation through the lens of understanding, empathy, and honesty. I now feel completely capable of facing conflict, ambiguity, and constraints in a high-level position in the corporate world.”
Dan C.From website
“It's hard for me to put into words the magic that Clayton works as a transformational coach. I sought Clayton's support after having followed his work and online content for a couple of years. I had just gone through a very painful breakup, which I wanted to turn into a breakthro...” “It's hard for me to put into words the magic that Clayton works as a transformational coach. I sought Clayton's support after having followed his work and online content for a couple of years. I had just gone through a very painful breakup, which I wanted to turn into a breakthrough, and Clayton patiently and expertly held me through that process over the course of 10 months, illuminating every step of the way with his brilliant insights and coaching tools. With Clayton in my corner, I was able to navigate my grief with compassion and expansion, distilling the learnings from the heartache and trusting and loving myself increasingly more. I came out the other side of the coaching feeling much more resourced and grounded, with a lot more clarity and inner peace.”
Sheila R.From website
“Clayton has a special gift of being able to uncover patterns, beliefs and destructive habits that were getting in the way. He walked beside me, encouraged me and challenged me in a very supportive way. He doesn't just ask questions, he dives deep, uncovers layers and teaches you ...” “Clayton has a special gift of being able to uncover patterns, beliefs and destructive habits that were getting in the way. He walked beside me, encouraged me and challenged me in a very supportive way. He doesn't just ask questions, he dives deep, uncovers layers and teaches you what it all means. He does this in a warm fully supportive safe space, and makes it all make sense. I had more mindblowing wake up moments than I can count. It was the best investment I've ever made.”
L. P.From website
“Before coaching, I was caught in a painful cycle of self-doubt, deep anxiety, and a constant search for external validation, which left my marriage feeling like it was at a breaking point. This coaching experience has been truly life-changing, fundamentally reshaping how I show u...” “Before coaching, I was caught in a painful cycle of self-doubt, deep anxiety, and a constant search for external validation, which left my marriage feeling like it was at a breaking point. This coaching experience has been truly life-changing, fundamentally reshaping how I show up for myself and my family. Now, my wife and I are vibrationally on the very same plane, with our communication being way better and a profound increase in intimacy that feels truly 'amazing'. I've consciously shifted from a victim mentality to a Creator mindset.”
Rob T.From website
“When I first talked to Clayton I was in a place of fear after my relationship ended. Clayton's perceptive and skillful questions helped pull me out of this frame of mind and empowered me to be the best that I could be. Clayton's support in helping me see the endless possibilities...” “When I first talked to Clayton I was in a place of fear after my relationship ended. Clayton's perceptive and skillful questions helped pull me out of this frame of mind and empowered me to be the best that I could be. Clayton's support in helping me see the endless possibilities within have empowered me to take great leaps in my life, starting with launching my own business and following my dreams. I am still growing daily and my confidence has grown tremendously.”
ElenaFrom website
“Having Clayton as a coach was one of the best decisions I've ever made. Through our work, I have built a more powerful version of myself and now have valuable tools for creating an abundant life and approaching my business with clarity and better decision-making. Clayton has play...” “Having Clayton as a coach was one of the best decisions I've ever made. Through our work, I have built a more powerful version of myself and now have valuable tools for creating an abundant life and approaching my business with clarity and better decision-making. Clayton has played an instrumental role in helping create my personal operating system around dealing with day-to-day operations, business partnerships, and personal relationships.”
Cody L.From website
“I feel like a different person. I'm noticing a very peaceful and trusting energy that I've never had before. My posture has changed, my walk has changed, my energy has completely shifted. Even my daughter says I'm like a different person as a parent. I'm actually responding now i...” “I feel like a different person. I'm noticing a very peaceful and trusting energy that I've never had before. My posture has changed, my walk has changed, my energy has completely shifted. Even my daughter says I'm like a different person as a parent. I'm actually responding now instead of reacting to everything. I've learned to feel my emotions, sit with them, and not immediately act on them. I really learned to parent myself. I'm not trying to be chosen or convince anyone to like me anymore. I'm just being myself and really starting to love every single part of me.”
Christine C.From website
“The work we did over our 6 month engagement has helped me grow in ways I never could have expected. Through our work I have learned to better communicate and truly live into relationships all around me. The way I show up and engage with the love of my life is now far healthier an...” “The work we did over our 6 month engagement has helped me grow in ways I never could have expected. Through our work I have learned to better communicate and truly live into relationships all around me. The way I show up and engage with the love of my life is now far healthier and it shows! She looks at me again like she did when we first met and her body language is back to that of confidence and desire.”
ChadFrom website
“I am absolutely living my dream life and my work with Clayton is a huge part of that. Clayton is simply the best. He is real. He is focused. He is extremely insightful. And best of all, he is committed to helping his clients become more self-aware, understanding, and accepting of...” “I am absolutely living my dream life and my work with Clayton is a huge part of that. Clayton is simply the best. He is real. He is focused. He is extremely insightful. And best of all, he is committed to helping his clients become more self-aware, understanding, and accepting of the challenges they are facing. After our time together, I launched my own full-time coaching business. For me, this has been one of the most valuable experiences I have ever been a part of.”
Laura W.From website
“I am so grateful for all our time in our coaching relationship. I have learned SO much and have grown in ways I never thought possible. I am now in a committed relationship with a great guy. I am making $60k more than I was when we started coaching creating a new promotion and a ...” “I am so grateful for all our time in our coaching relationship. I have learned SO much and have grown in ways I never thought possible. I am now in a committed relationship with a great guy. I am making $60k more than I was when we started coaching creating a new promotion and a new job. I will be referring you to everyone in my life because this has been truly life-changing.”
Vanessa C.From website
“Clayton Olson has been a major inspiration in my life. When I first came across him, I was not exactly what one would call socially calibrated. The lessons I have learned from him have helped me in every part of my life. My business, my personal friendships, my love life and my f...” “Clayton Olson has been a major inspiration in my life. When I first came across him, I was not exactly what one would call socially calibrated. The lessons I have learned from him have helped me in every part of my life. My business, my personal friendships, my love life and my family have all reaped the rewards of Clayton's enthusiasm and inspiration.”
Jourdan D.From website
“Clayton has been an incredible resource for me during one of the hardest times in my life. When I lost the love of my life, I reached out to Clayton to help understand what happened, and what I could do to regain what I had lost. Clayton not only provided invaluable advice but mo...” “Clayton has been an incredible resource for me during one of the hardest times in my life. When I lost the love of my life, I reached out to Clayton to help understand what happened, and what I could do to regain what I had lost. Clayton not only provided invaluable advice but most importantly, listened to help me understand how I affect the outcomes that I experience. The difference between Clayton and other advisors out there is his authenticity, and his amazing coaching ability.”
SuzanneFrom website
“I can't thank Clayton enough for helping me get through such a difficult time. Clayton helped me shift my mentality and improve my communication skills in all my relationships. He especially helped with my ex girlfriend, who came back to me after many of the changes implemented t...” “I can't thank Clayton enough for helping me get through such a difficult time. Clayton helped me shift my mentality and improve my communication skills in all my relationships. He especially helped with my ex girlfriend, who came back to me after many of the changes implemented through Clayton's insight. His conflict resolution analysis is particularly helpful.”
"Saved my relationship – more than once. He was able to give me a lot of clarity and acceptance. Clayton has a special gift for understanding situations with wha..."
George R.
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