Cherish Amber — Relationship Coaching

About Cherish

Cherish Amber is a certified sex and relationship coach who helps individuals and couples navigate intimacy, communication, and the patterns that keep love from flourishing. Trained as a VITA coach, her work draws from psychotherapy, parts work, tantra, somatic therapy, and neuroscience to offer a whole-person approach.

She developed her own 5 C's Methodology—Choice, Clarity, Communication, Connection, and Consent—as a framework to help clients identify what's blocking them, express themselves honestly, and deepen intimacy. Her specialty includes couples on the edge of separation, men struggling with sexual confidence, and anyone navigating non-traditional relationship structures.

A queer woman herself, Cherish works inclusively with LGBTQIA+ clients, polyamorous partnerships, and couples from all walks of life. All sessions are held online.

Background & Training

VITA Coach Certification / Certified

Offerings

One-to-One Coaching

Ongoing / Virtual

Individual coaching for people stuck in relationship patterns, struggling with intimacy or confidence, navigating breakups, or exploring non-traditional dynamics. Sessions include follow-ups, bespoke homeplay, WhatsApp access between sessions, and guided meditations.

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Couples Coaching

Ongoing / Virtual

Guided support for couples facing arguments, emotional distance, diminished intimacy, or considering separation. Uses the 5 C's Methodology to rebuild communication, connection, and desire.

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Coaching For Men

5 sessions × 60 min / Virtual

A 5-session private program for men experiencing erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. Uses breathwork, somatic practices, nervous system regulation, and mindset work to address the physical and emotional roots of sexual confidence.

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Inner Dance Breathwork

In person & virtual

Breathwork and inner dance sessions offered as part of the coaching practice. Also delivered as workshops at events.

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The Pleasure Reset

Virtual

A dedicated program focused on resetting one's relationship with pleasure and intimacy.

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I Can Help If You're Navigating

Intimacy & Sexual Connection

Romantic Relationship Struggles

Self-Worth & Confidence

Anxiety & Overwhelm

Communication & Conflict

Heartbreak & Breakups

Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage

Feeling Stuck or Lost

Nervous System Dysregulation

Sexual Trauma

Shadow Work & Inner Child

Stress Management

Childhood Trauma

Codependency & Attachment

Post-Divorce Rebuilding

Divorce & Co-Parenting

Coming Out

Spiritual Awakening

What Clients Say

★★★★★

"We are most proud of how much better our communication is and how much better we treat each other."

C & K

★★★★★

"I can't thank you enough for holding me so safely, enabling me to process all the pain and rejection feelings that came up for me."

J.

★★★★★

"It was like as we healed our relationship on a deeper level, the relationship with my business blossomed."

E & A

★★★★★

"It was incredibly rewarding, challenging, and important. Sometimes these things are not 'enjoyable' but so deeply valuable, and I am grateful."

E.

★★★★★

"I was stuck in the same toxic cycle for years. This coaching changed everything for me—I'm now in a relationship that truly makes me happy."

Anonymous

★★★★★

"You will be surprised how trusting the process and your coach will then transform into trusting yourself. You will learn and experience stuff you never thought was possible."

Anonymous

★★★★★

"Before this, I was caught in a loop of anxiety and performance pressure. Cherish didn't just help me 'fix' things, she helped me understand myself. Sex finally feels connected and enjoyable again. And I felt so much better day to day."

T.

★★★★★

"I'd been dealing with ED for over a year and felt completely shut down. Working with Cherish helped me feel safe in my body for the first time in ages. I can honestly say I've never felt more confident in bed."

D.

★★★★★

"I didn't realise how much shame I was carrying until we started this work. Cherish created a space where I could be real, and the impact has been massive."

Anonymous

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