Blaine Anderson is a dating coach and professional matchmaker who founded Dating By Blaine in 2020. Since then, she's worked with over 7,000 men across a wide range of backgrounds — from introverted programmers to successful founders and CEOs — all looking to get their dating lives unstuck. She's been featured in the New York Times, Wall Street Journal, Forbes, and appeared on Shark Tank Season 15, where Mark Cuban offered her a deal.
Blaine's coaching philosophy is direct and practical: dating is a learnable skill, not a personality trait you're born with. She focuses on helping men present themselves authentically, build real confidence, and create genuine chemistry — rather than relying on tricks or false personas. Her programs cover everything from optimizing dating app profiles and texting to approaching women in person.
On the matchmaking side, Blaine and her team personally source, screen, and vet potential matches for clients — hand-picking introductions rather than pulling from a generic database. It's a full-service approach designed for busy, successful men who want to meet high-quality women without the friction of modern dating apps.
Background & Training
Practicing since 2020
Offerings
Texting Operating System
Self-paced, ~2 hours / Virtual
Self-study course to help you send the right message every time and eliminate text anxiety.
Online Dating Operating System
Self-paced, ~3 hours / Virtual
Build a top 1% dating app profile and land high-quality matches on apps like Hinge.
Approach Academy
Self-paced, ~3 hours / Virtual
Learn 5 steps to respectfully meet women in real life, even if you're shy or have zero experience.
The Dating Masterclass
Self-paced, 5 hours/week for 5 weeks recommended / Virtual
Comprehensive program combining self-study, group coaching, and a 1x1 profile makeover to transform your dating life.
Jumpstart Your Dating Life
3–5 hours/week for 12 weeks / Virtual
Fully personalized 1x1 coaching program working directly with a coach to get your dating life unstuck over 12 weeks.
Professional Matchmaking
6-month engagement / In person & virtual
6-month search with at least 10 hand-picked introductions to vetted women. Includes professional styling, photos, and date logistics support.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Loneliness & Social Connection
Self-Worth & Confidence
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Communication & Conflict
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Reviews & Testimonials
“There's been a big improvement in my dating life, my approach to women, and my life in general. The focus on yourself — becoming aware of the things you're doing, and becoming really invested in you, and falling in love with yourself before you seek that from someone else — I fou...” “There's been a big improvement in my dating life, my approach to women, and my life in general. The focus on yourself — becoming aware of the things you're doing, and becoming really invested in you, and falling in love with yourself before you seek that from someone else — I found that hugely transformative.”
RyanFrom website
“I have a date in two days, and it's all thanks to Blaine and her masterclass! Blaine gives you the tools, techniques, and strategies to be successful and get good dates. But she also really works on you as a person. If you're on the fence, it was 100% worth the investment.”
MatthewFrom website
“I've gotten a lot of confidence out of it, even approaching women at the beach, or at a bar! I feel like I'm just chatting. Everyone would get something out of it — whether you are totally introverted and shy, or you can get dates but you're getting friend-zoned, the solutions ar...” “I've gotten a lot of confidence out of it, even approaching women at the beach, or at a bar! I feel like I'm just chatting. Everyone would get something out of it — whether you are totally introverted and shy, or you can get dates but you're getting friend-zoned, the solutions are there.”
JackFrom website
“Now I embrace being an introvert. I'm more comfortable talking with women, and people in general, and my confidence is boosted. Blaine's funny, she uses analogies that are helpful, she really wants you to be successful in your dating life, and life in general.”
AnthonyFrom website
“I've learned how to think for myself, and be myself, and realize how amazing I am. To summarize my experience with Blaine: learning how to be a 10 in my own mind. For anyone on the fence, wouldn't you like to be the one people come to for advice, instead of the one who's always a...” “I've learned how to think for myself, and be myself, and realize how amazing I am. To summarize my experience with Blaine: learning how to be a 10 in my own mind. For anyone on the fence, wouldn't you like to be the one people come to for advice, instead of the one who's always asking?”
DrewFrom website
“I honestly had so many matches within 3 days it was difficult to keep track. Blaine has a lot of integrity and it shows. You won't regret it.”
JoeFrom website
“I finally made a decision between two women I was seeing! I've changed my perspective, from pursuing a woman, to pursuing a quality connection. Of course it's worth it.”
AlanFrom website
“After just 72 hours I had hundreds of matches, and went on a bunch of dates. I'm about to go on a 4th date with a woman I like.”
"There's been a big improvement in my dating life, my approach to women, and my life in general. The focus on yourself — becoming aware of the things you're doin..."
Ryan
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