About Avarel
Avarel Smith is a certified dating and relationship coach based in Atlanta who works exclusively with single women ready to stop repeating painful relationship patterns. She founded Seeking Synergy in 2019 after her own divorce became the catalyst for her purpose — emerging from that experience with hard-won clarity about self-worth, healthy boundaries, and what lasting love actually requires.
Her coaching is practical and forward-moving. Avarel helps women audit their dating habits, unpack self-sabotaging beliefs and attachment styles, and build a personalized strategy grounded in boundaries, communication, and intentional decision-making. She describes her role as part accountability partner, part strategic advisor for your love life.
A bestselling author and serial entrepreneur, Avarel brings a faith-anchored, no-nonsense perspective to her work — meeting clients via Zoom whether they're in Atlanta or across the world.
Background & Training
Practicing since 2019
Certified Dating & Relationship Coach / Certified
Offerings
Discovery Session
15 minutes / Virtual
A 15-minute consultation to learn more about your dating and relationship challenges and desired goals, and to determine if you're a good fit to work together.
Dating Strategy Session
1 hour / Virtual
A 1:1 strategy session for single, high-value women seeking clarity. Includes an audit of current dating patterns, clarification of non-negotiables, and a personalized dating Blueprint with a decision-making framework.
1-Hour Deep Dive Session
1 hour / Virtual
A standalone deep-dive coaching session including analysis, feedback, science-based action steps, and love homework.
Dating Success Intensive (Private)
12 weeks / Virtual
A 12-week private coaching program covering dating patterns, attachment styles, self-confidence, boundaries, communication, conflict resolution, and building a solid foundation for lasting love. Includes video modules, structured homework, and weekly sessions.
Dating Success Intensive (Group)
12 weeks / Virtual
A 12-week group coaching program with the same curriculum as the private intensive, in a community setting.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Self-Worth & Confidence
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Heartbreak & Breakups
Communication & Conflict
Codependency & Attachment
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Shadow Work & Inner Child
Loneliness & Social Connection
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Anxiety & Overwhelm
What Clients Say
★★★★★
"I had the pleasure of doing a course with the awesome Avarel Smith, a certified relationship coach. When I started, I didn't realize that I had all the baggage and misconceptions about myself and more so, relationship, which I happily let go of as she coached me patiently along, week after week. The experience was life changing — this is not a cliché. I honestly saw my personality and perception on dating take a 360 round about."
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