About Annie
Annie Lavin is a Dublin-based relationship therapist and master coach who has spent over a decade helping people break free from the patterns that keep love and connection out of reach. Drawing on her background in psychology, psychotherapy, and coaching, she created The Secure Relationship Method™ — a structured approach that goes beyond surface-level conversation to address the attachment wounds and emotional patterns at the root of relationship struggles.
She works with individuals and couples alike, helping them move from cycles of disconnection and frustration toward the kind of safety and closeness they actually want. Her approach blends trauma-informed therapeutic depth with the forward momentum of coaching — rather than spending years unpacking the past, clients typically experience meaningful shifts within weeks.
Beyond one-on-one work, Annie runs The Love Club, a group coaching and community programme, and hosts the "Choosing Love" podcast. She also consults with organizations on relational effectiveness in workplace settings.
Background & Training
Psychology MSc / BPS, PSI approved
Higher Diploma in Marriage & Relationship Counselling / Accredited Member of APCP
Diploma in Personal, Leadership and Executive Coaching / ICF, EMCC approved
Certified Singles Relationship Coach / ICF, EMCC approved
Post Graduate Diploma in Education / PGDE
EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique/Tapping) / Trained
Specialism in Adoption-Related Issues
Kinsey Institute Researcher
Offerings
Private Relationship Coaching
90 min sessions, typically weekly over 3 months / Virtual
Tailored 1:1 coaching using The Secure Relationship Method™ for individuals and couples. Blends therapeutic depth with structured coaching to address attachment wounds, communication patterns, and emotional safety. Most clients see meaningful change in weeks, not years.
Free 15-Minute Consultation
15 min / Virtual
A complimentary discovery call to explore whether Annie's approach is the right fit.
The Love Club
Ongoing / Virtual
A private group coaching and community programme providing access to Annie and her team. Focused on building fulfilling relationships, developing new skills, and healing in a supportive community setting.
Relational Consultancy
Varies / In person & virtual
Corporate consulting focused on relational effectiveness in workplace and leadership contexts.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Communication & Conflict
Heartbreak & Breakups
Codependency & Attachment
Self-Worth & Confidence
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Shadow Work & Inner Child
Childhood Trauma
Loneliness & Social Connection
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Stress Management
PTSD & Complex Trauma
Narcissistic Abuse Recovery
Leadership & Influence
What Clients Say
★★★★★
"Meeting you and our collaboration was undoubtedly one of the most positive highlights of this year. I am truly grateful for your excellent coaching guidance and support. You've helped me to become a better person, and I will cherish our exchanges for a long time to come. Your insights and encouragement will make a lasting impact on my life, and I'm excited to see what the future holds."
Julien F.
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