Andrea LaRosa is a dating and relationship coach based in San Luis Obispo who founded Date Smarter, a coaching and matchmaking practice for people who want to build real, lasting connections. Certified in relationship coaching, life coaching, matchmaking, and NLP, she brings a psychology-informed approach to the often messy, confusing world of modern dating.
Her work spans dating coaching, relationship deepening, breakup recovery, and communication — all grounded in practical tools rather than generic advice. Clients consistently describe her as direct, warm, and genuinely funny, and her sessions tend to feel like honest conversations rather than formal therapy.
Andrea believes love doesn't have to be complicated — it just requires intention, communication, and willingness to do the work. Whether someone is burned out on apps, healing from a breakup, or struggling to communicate with their partner, she helps them rebuild confidence and move forward with clarity.
A single 60-minute session for targeted support — prep for a date, decode a confusing situation, or work through a communication misstep. Expert insight and actionable steps in one hour.
Coaching Mini Package
10 x 30 min / Virtual
10 x 30-minute sessions for busy clients who prefer short, focused conversations. Build consistent progress with bite-sized support as real situations come up.
Coaching Intensive Package
10 x 60 min / Virtual
10 x 60-minute sessions for clients ready to do deep work. Reflection, accountability, and major breakthroughs — gain clarity, confidence, and communication skills that create lasting change.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Communication & Conflict
Heartbreak & Breakups
Self-Worth & Confidence
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Loneliness & Social Connection
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Codependency & Attachment
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Reviews & Testimonials
“I've been in the healthiest relationship of my life for the past year and a half, all thanks to Andrea.”
Bijan N.From website
“I was struggling to find the right partner until I tried Date Smarter's matchmaking service. Their personalized approach and coaching helped me improve my communication skills and build my confidence, leading me to find the love of my life. Thanks to their expert guidance, I'm no...” “I was struggling to find the right partner until I tried Date Smarter's matchmaking service. Their personalized approach and coaching helped me improve my communication skills and build my confidence, leading me to find the love of my life. Thanks to their expert guidance, I'm now happily engaged. I highly recommend Date Smarter's services to anyone looking for a lasting, meaningful relationship.”
Janice W.From website
“I actually feel excited about dating again thanks to Andrea, her team, and this program.”
Stephanie P.From website
“I hired Andrea to coach me to get my ex back. Luckily working with her made me realize I didn't want her back and now I'm in a healthy relationship with my new partner. I know this one will work because Andrea taught me how to set boundaries and communicate more appropriately.”
Mindy R.From website
“Andrea provided me with a very sincere and personalized approach based on MY goals.”
Luis F.From website
“Andrea's caring but straight forward approach helped me be a more effective communicator and better partner.”
Sarah Beth B.From website
“Andrea helped me level up my relationship 'skill set' as well as set up ideal dates. 10 stars out of 5!”
Arthur L.From website
“I met my fiance through this matchmaking program. I was taught some very valuable skills on how to attract my ideal mate.”
Mike S.From website
“The Beat the Algorithm mini course taught me how to be eye-candy in my profile. I am going on so many dates now.”
Justin F.From website
“Andrea helped me through a breakup that I thought I'd never recover from. She taught me how to heal and be open to love again. I'm now dating in her matchmaking program and loving my new life.”
Mina J.From website
“Andrea always showed up to our sessions with compassion - and we shared lots of laughs in the process. I can't imagine maneuvering the dating world without her.”
Amelia T.From website
“I was so burnt out on dating apps when I found Date Smarter's matchmaking program. I knew my perfect girlfriend was out there, I just didn't know how to find her.”
Michael P.From website
“Andrea has taught me that I can love at any age. I can be loved at any age, too.”
John F.From website
“I never thought I would be able to use a matchmaking service and although I was hesitant at first, Andrea put all my worries at ease. Imagine being able to focus on what really matters when you're first getting to know someone. Andrea is someone who will help guide you through ne...” “I never thought I would be able to use a matchmaking service and although I was hesitant at first, Andrea put all my worries at ease. Imagine being able to focus on what really matters when you're first getting to know someone. Andrea is someone who will help guide you through nerves, questions and hesitations and celebrate the wins! She helped me create realistic goals and helped me be a better communicator. Before Andrea, I had some pretty horrible dates which caused me to have anxiety surrounding the idea of even getting back out there. She really helped guide me and ease my worries. I couldn't have done it without her!”
Vieve L.From website
“Date Smarter helped me to be a better boyfriend. I couldn't afford their elite services but I did sign up for some coaching sessions and now I have the best relationship.”
Aaron P.From website
“The team at Date Smarter were very sincere and had a personalized approach to my needs. They tailored a program that fit my needs and budget.”
Frank R.From website
“Date Smarter Matchmaking completely transformed my dating experience! From the personalized coaching to the carefully curated dates, every step was handled with professionalism and care. I felt truly supported and understood, and the results speak for themselves—I met an amazing ...” “Date Smarter Matchmaking completely transformed my dating experience! From the personalized coaching to the carefully curated dates, every step was handled with professionalism and care. I felt truly supported and understood, and the results speak for themselves—I met an amazing partner!”
Randy J.From website
“I would definitely use these services again. I'm having so much fun with dating again. I never knew I could feel this confident.”
