About Aly
Aly Bullock is a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and communication coach dedicated to helping couples build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. With thousands of hours spent working with couples, she has developed accessible, actionable resources that have supported relationship health worldwide.
Through her widely-followed social media account @RelationshipsWithAly, Aly has reached millions, with her content shared hundreds of thousands of times. She formerly served as Head of Relationships at Paired, the #1 couples app with over 4 million users, and her expertise has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Newsweek, and other publications.
Her signature program, The TALK Blueprint, is a self-paced online course designed to help individuals and couples master essential communication techniques—staying calm, connected, and clear during hard conversations.
Background & Training
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) / License
Offerings
The TALK Blueprint
Self-paced / Virtual
A self-paced online course built around a four-part framework (Tune In, Assess Assumptions, Listen, Kindness) with video lessons, scripts, downloadable exercises, and bonus guided practices to help couples and individuals stay regulated in conflict and repair faster after misunderstandings.
Talk Like You Love Each Other
Self-paced (5+ hours) / Virtual
A comprehensive communication skills course for couples offering over 5 hours of expert coaching, real-life demonstrations, and actionable strategies to transform connection, defuse defensiveness, and repair after conflicts.
1:1 Coaching
Varies / Virtual
Limited individual coaching sessions with Aly. Email list subscribers are notified when new availability opens.
The Relationship Reset (Free Training)
60 minutes / Virtual
A free 60-minute training covering the 7-step resentment prevention check-in, the ultimate date night formula, and how to talk like you love each other.
Let's Get Naked Challenge
14 days / Virtual
A 14-day intimacy reset that helps couples rebuild connection and playfulness through simple daily prompts.
Understanding Your Defensiveness: Digital Workbook
Virtual
A 20-page digital workbook covering the origins, triggers, and manifestations of defensiveness, with 16 journaling prompts and 3 creative activities to deepen self-awareness.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Communication & Conflict
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Anger & Emotional Regulation
Anxiety & Overwhelm
Nervous System Dysregulation
Codependency & Attachment
Stress Management
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Heartbreak & Breakups
What Clients Say
★★★★★
"The quality of the information, the different teaching formats, will improve your relationships immediately. You learn theory and have the ability to prepare and associate these things with your areas of challenge, but the magic has been in the actionable steps that align each week, so you understand and then go and try it. You can make change happen for yourself immediately."
Erin
★★★★★
"This course didn't just teach me to communicate better—it taught me how to foster trust and intimacy through meaningful dialogue. After taking this course, I feel more confident, intentional, and empathetic in how I express myself and listen to others. I can't recommend it enough!"
Komal
★★★★★
"Taking this course has transformed the way I approach communication in my relationships. I've learned how to step back, see the bigger picture, and truly understand what my partner needs in moments of tension or misunderstanding."
Anna
★★★★★
"Your course has given me a jolt of confidence and an eagerness to put these learnings into practice. The biggest thing that has helped in grounding me is my "I am" statement. It is amazing how this little phrase has become my moral compass. When I am getting triggered or when figuring out how I want to show up I think of that phrase. It has been a game changer and brings a richer and more connected experience with my people."
John
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