About Allison
Allison Orlovsky is a relationship coach who helps couples and individuals architect the kind of marriage or partnership they actually want — not just survive the one they fell into. Having been divorced twice by age 35 and rebuilding as a single mom of three, she brings hard-won personal experience to her work alongside a decade-plus of dedicated learning and practice.
Her signature "Relationship Architecture" framework treats a relationship like a home: you design it with intention, maintain it regularly, and remodel it when your needs change. She works with couples who feel stuck or stagnant, individuals navigating love on their own, and people approaching marriage who want to build it on solid ground from the start.
Allison is especially drawn to premarital prep, blended family dynamics, and helping people who've been through divorce create something genuinely different the next time. Her approach is practical, forward-focused, and grounded in real tools rather than endless processing of the past.
Offerings
Beyond the Wedding: Premarital & Early Marriage Architecture
12 weeks / Virtual
A 12-week program for engaged or newly married couples. Covers the core principles of building a strong marriage, creating a shared vision, designing a 'relationship blueprint', and building practical tools for communication, finances, and intimacy.
Couple's Private Architecture
Varies / Virtual
Custom private coaching for established couples looking to reignite, reconnect, and reinvent their relationship. Includes a discovery call to determine scope — whether a full redesign, a remodel, or a refresh.
Individual Private Architecture
Varies / Virtual
One-on-one coaching for individuals who want to work on their relationship without their partner, or whose partner isn't ready to engage. Focuses on personal agency and creating change from within.
Relationship Remodels
Varies / Virtual
Topic-focused programs and courses targeting specific areas of a relationship, such as communication, finances, and intimacy.
Manage Your Life — Together
Self-paced / Virtual
A self-guided workshop to help couples create a fair, balanced distribution of household and family responsibilities — grounded in each partner's strengths, preferences, and love. A reusable tool as life circumstances change.
Speaking & Podcasts
Varies / Virtual
Allison is available for speaking engagements and podcast appearances on relationship, marriage, and personal development topics.
I Can Help If You're Navigating
Romantic Relationship Struggles
Intimacy & Sexual Connection
Communication & Conflict
Feeling Stuck or Lost
Heartbreak & Breakups
Divorce & Co-Parenting
Post-Divorce Rebuilding
Family Dynamics & Boundaries
Codependency & Attachment
Self-Worth & Confidence
Limiting Beliefs & Self-Sabotage
Midlife Crisis / Awakening
Stress Management
What Clients Say
★★★★★
"Allison has the ability to truly relate to her clients on many levels, through many life experiences of her own. Further, she presents herself in an open, non-judgmental way that allows me to feel comfortable and willing to discuss some parts of life that are hard to admit need changing. Only someone who is truly passionate to their job and authentic in their approach can bring clients to truly identify their own areas of growth, and from there, find effective ways to help."
Stephanie G.
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